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Tuesday, October 22, 2013

Review on the movie "Doubt" by DashiPwertingGwapahaPweraBuyag

It was not my first time to watch the movie “Doubt” last week. I watched the film on the big screen in 2008 as a way of spending quality time with my husband plus the fact that it was an Oscar Entry starred by Meryl Streep, who is highly regarded as one of the most talented actors of all time. Just like many others who have watched the movie, this thought provoking piece led to raise myself many questions. Is Father Flynn guilty of improper behavior, or is he the victim of Sr. Aloysius’ misguided suspicions? When should we stand firm in our convictions and when should we question them? These questions are just one of the proofs that the creators of this film have done a very wonderful job in meeting their goal, to instill doubt in the minds of the viewers. Sister Aloysius who disbelieved Fr. Flynn completely is neither the doubter nor Sister James who ended up believing him. Instead, it’s we, the viewers. We are all doubters and we doubted Fr. Flynn’s innocence. As a doubter, I thought of examining selected scenes in the movie and the behaviors of the main cast, namely Sister Aloysius, Fr. Flynn, and Sister James.

Sister Aloysius

          Early in the movie, it was shown how Sister Aloysius disciplined the students for not paying attention during the Holy Mass. Also when she confiscated the transistor radio of a boy and sent him to her office for not listening to Sister James’ class discussion. These clearly tell us of Sr. Aloysius’ authoritarian and strict approach in disciplining the students. She is a dragon lady of the school who doesn’t tolerate even the slightest misbehavior. She reminded me of my High School days at the Sisters of Mary Girlstown School, a prestigious institution also run by nuns. I can still remember on how I would straighten up my spine during a song practice when our Mother Superior and Principal would roam around, how our teachers made sure they are at their best when a nun passes through the corridor during class discussions. Worst was when our Sister-in-charge dined with us and it had to be me sitting next to her, the fear that she might get mad if I don’t say a word and the fear to say something which might not sound pleasing to her ears. With these encounters, I can really relate to how the students in the movie feel towards their tough principal. But though Sister Aloysius might fit the stereotype of an angry Catholic school nun who slaps the hands of students with a stick, I’m still convinced that her behavior is only motivated by her genuine concern for those in her care. The kindness within her is shown in the scene when she was in the cafeteria with the other nuns. Notice that she did not eat, she only took medicine and water. She didn’t comment on how she was feeling like most people would do. She instead monitored carefully the entire cafeteria full of rowdy students while helping the blind nun sitting next to her clean off her sleeves and conversing with Sr. James about the welfare of a student. When she perceived that Donald Muller maybe in grave danger in the hands of Fr. Fynn, perhaps suspected the latter had already exploited the boy, she did everything within her power to protect him. In my opinion, she did the right thing to assume the role of a guardian and protector of the endangered student, even when the child’s own mother is unable to assume the role itself. Speaking as a parent, I would certainly do whatever it takes to protect my son from any danger especially when it’s an issue that has something to do with sexual exploitation. Just like Sister Aloysius who hasn’t the slightest proof of her suspicions towards Fr. Flynn, even if I lack sources or have the least chance to prove it, I wouldn’t entertain doubt to question my speculations for I don’t want to end up in the worst kind of regret, a regret when it’s too late to do anything about it.

Fr. Flynn

Father Flynn is a priest who coaches basketball to boys in the school and tends to the spiritual needs of the students and their families. Unlike Sister Aloysius, he is moderate in his beliefs about discipline and tradition. He likes the notion of the church embracing the modern culture so that it’s leading members can be seen as friends and family. Below is an excerpt from the film, Fr. Flynn’s dialogue to Sr. Aloysius from where I partly based my judgement:

“ I’m not flesh and blood like you? Or are we just convictions? I can’t say everything. Don’t you understand? There are things I can’t say. Even if you can’t imagine the explanation, Sister, remember that there are circumstances beyond your knowledge. Even if you feel certainty, it is an emotion not a fact. In the spirit of charity I appeal to you! ”

The phrase such as “There are things I can’t say” seem to imply a level of shame or possibly guilt on Fr. Flynn – ashamed to tell that he is gay or guilty of sexually exploiting an eight-grade boy? However, Fr. Flynn firmly claimed, “I have not done anything wrong”. When Sister Aloysius confronted him in a separate scene about Donald Muller and the alcohol that was on the boy’s breath, he even explained that the boy was caught by the school custodian drinking the altar wine and he had called Donald Muller to the rectory to warn him that such offence is more than enough to expel him as one of the altar boys. But in view of Donald’s situation in the school, he has offered him a second chance if no one else finds out about the incident, and if he promises not to do it again. However, now that the secret is in the open, he will have to remove Donald Muller from serving as an altar boy. This explanation was believed by Sr. James but did not satisfy Sister Aloysius. Say we concede that Father Flynn is not guilty of any misconduct, why would he burst into such emotion when Sister Aloysius falsely told him that the nun from his previous parish made incriminating statements about his past, a prior history of infringements? In response to Sister Aloysius’ lie which sounded more of a threat to him, Fr. Flynn resigned from the school, was transferred and promoted as a pastor to another parish. If he didn’t have something really dark to hide, surely he would have stood his ground, but why did he resign? He must have valid reasons to come up with such decision. Whatever reasons he had, I have two things in mind, Fr. Flynn resigned because he didn’t want to ruin his reputation and he was concealing a wrongdoing he has done either in the past or at the present time, but the question if he had sexually exploited Donald Muller remains unanswered.

Sister James

Planted in the middle and torn between Sister Aloysius and Fr. Flynn’s points of view is this young and enthusiastic nun, Sister James. She isn’t sure which of the two Philosophies to follow. She has innocent trust to goodness in every person that was why she easily believed to Fr. Flynn’s explanation and she right away apologized to his boy student with whom she reprimanded and raised her voice to, when the boy said sorry. This film is not about action and explosions but Sister James was exploded with confusions which rooted from two contradicting dialogues of Sister Aloysius and Fr. Flynn to her. They are as follow:

Sister Aloysius :Innocence is a form of laziness. Innocent teachers are easily duped. You must be canny. The heart is warm, but your wits must be cold. The children should think you see right through them.”

Fr. Flynn : There are people who go after your humanity, Sister James, who tell you the light in your heart is weakness. That your soft feeling betray you…There’s nothing wrong with love. Have you forgotten the message of the Savior to us all ?  Love.”

Her peace of mind was stolen from her when she put herself between these thoughts. She even had a terrible dream and couldn’t sleep well. Is this the prize kind-hearted people get?

Relevance to Educator :
As an educator, am I Sister James, Sister Aloysius or Fr. Flynn ? What method of teaching is most effective?  “Good  and  effective teachers  are cold and cunning, creating a bit of fear within the  hearts of  the  students” is one of Sister Aloysius philosophies which simply implies an authoritarian method that according to Baumrind (1971) is a style characterized by numerous behavioral regulations, often seen as punitive and restrictive, and students have neither a say in their management, nor are they seen to need explanations; the teacher's character is perceived as being cold, even punishing. Contrary to this, Sr. James wants her students to feel they can talk to her while Fr. Flynn is sympathetic, playful and prioritizes kindness over rules and belief.

Of the three, I can’t find where to fit myself in. I totally agree with Sister James because I believe I can still be an effective teacher without being harsh to my students but I’m not as innocent and as pure as her. I’m also sure I’m not the Sister Aloysius whose authoritarian method governs. Her method is a big “NO” for me because I believe that this method would create rebellious individuals. I may be more of Fr. Flynn who is approachable and sympathetic to the students except that I cut my nails short. But what method of teaching is really effective? Well, we can’t dictate any educator on to what method is best for their students because any best method is dependent to the students the teacher encounters. It’s the teacher’s role to find out what’s best for his students and there are many factors he has to consider, one of these is the behavior of the students.


“I have doubts, I have such doubts”, with these words, the movie ends.



~The Telos~ 

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